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I actually ended up writing about it in my post - piquedpilgrim.substack.…
I think attachment comes from the importance we give to permanence and control. Attachment comes from conditional love that takes or gives at someone's cost. My parents neither expected or gave me love in a way to make me feel indebted. Hearing the words - 'If not …
I actually ended up writing about it in my post - https://piquedpilgrim.substack.com/p/with-love-detached?r=3wp3c4
I think attachment comes from the importance we give to permanence and control. Attachment comes from conditional love that takes or gives at someone's cost. My parents neither expected or gave me love in a way to make me feel indebted. Hearing the words - 'If not this time, then next.'
'You can only do so much for others, in the end they have to take care of themselves.' -
and them being open to the drastic changes I brought into their world, it made a huge impact on how I feel love.
I love the part that your parents never made you feel indebted 🥺 so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your post. I will read it 🖤